What I know
*Smile. It's important.
*Fighting reality is hard work.
*Everyone wants the chance to be good.
*Traveling gets you closer to knowing yourself.
*Try new foods. The worst that can happen is you'll look like a child spitting it out.
*The more chances you give someone, the bigger the chance they'll do better.
*Drink water.
*Looking people in the eyes when you talk to them makes it a real conversation.
*Your soul mate isn't always your spouse.
*Music is a necessity.
*A day spent in bed is required. (alone or with company)
*Your body is amazing.
*Texting is abused.
*Not everyone matches.
*Facebook is a form of evil.
*Pictures are worth much more than a thousand words. And dollars.
*Give yourself a break. Everyone else does.
*Being a martyr is manipulation. Put your cross down.
*Your white knuckle grip is futile against what is.
*Vitamin D is more like a hormone.
*Kissing is a must.
*An apple a day may keep the doctor away.... try it with avocado and kale.
*Have a date with your lover, every week. Even if it's watching your show in bed on Sunday night with dark chocolate.
*Sex is very important to your health. I promise.
*Chill out.
*The only person I want to be better than, is the person I was yesterday.
*Everything will be OK in the end. If it's not ok, it's not the end.
*Know your value so you don't undervalue yourself. Or over value yourself.
*Get good with the worst case scenario.
*The best money spent will be on music.
*Anxiety usually comes from self betrayal.
*There's always an exception.
*You would never talk to anyone the way you talk to yourself. Knock it off. I will too.
*Be really really good at at least one thing.
*Your body wants to move. Promise.
*The clarity that can come from a long, lone drive can be life changing.
*My hugs are addicting.
*The natural smell of a baby's head is sacred and reverent. That's why it can't be duplicated in a candle.
*The stupid, icky stuff still has to be done
*You do you, and I'll do me.
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